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Thursday, 17 July 2008

Men Cautioned for Sex Act in Public Toilets

These stories never fail to depress me. The Warrington Guardian is reporting that three men have been arrested for having sex in public toilets. This happened after having been "observed" by a plain clothes police officer. You can go back fifty years looking at the reported cases in this area or look at the more recent media reports and in each and every situation the offence committed was to be viewed by a plain clothed police officer. A police officer who placed himself in the situation, who acted so as to clearly want to view or participate in such an act (thus making the men feel safe in starting such an act) and then they arrest them. It is never a member of the public who has witnessed such an act. Interestingly, as my own research has shown, the people involved in this were not the classic image of an old man but actually reflects a spread of ages - 55, 37 and 29. Warrington is also handy for urban centres in Liverpool and particularly Manchester which have active commercial gay scenes. A quick search on Gaydar reveals 518 profiles so there are also clearly opportunities for men to meet other men through the net online and in commercial spaces. We don't know whether the men defined themselves as straight, bi or gay, if any category, but this story once again underlines the phenomenon of cottaging continues, continues to get Police attention.

At a time when knife crime is gripping the attention of our nation, where do we find our Police? Hanging around in the loo.

Time for Some Campaignin'

It's been a while since I wrote anything about the US Presidential race - a race that has the potential to make a massive impact upon LGBT rights in the US. Today the BBC is reporting on the release of a new video buy the JibJab guys which targets the 2008 campaign. In a contest that has been a little dull as of late it adds some welcome humour to the campaign. You can view the video below and the 2004 campaign video (which I think is better) that started the JibJab guys off.



Sunday, 13 July 2008

Religion & Sexuality

The Andrew Marr show this morning included a joint interview with Ian McKellen and gay bishop Gene Robinson. It made interesting viewing and can be viewed here. I was greatly impressed by Robinson who I hadn't heard speak before and his closing statement really had me cheering him along out loud when he said:

"You know I, I chaired a group of conversation for twelve to twenty one year old kids who were questioning their sexuality. Not one of them was a person of faith. But every single one of them could quote me Leviticus and that God thought they were an abomination.
They couldn't have found Leviticus in a Bible if their lives had depended on it. But they knew that word and they thought they knew what God thought of them. And the Church is responsible for that. Its religious people, Muslim, Jews, Christians. We are responsible for that. And it's going to take religious voices to undo the hatred that comes from those words."

Powerful stuff. Religion also featured heavily in the Employment Tribunal case earlier in the week that a Christian registrar could refuse to preside over a Civil Partnership ceremony if she was homophobic, sorry, I meant Christian. So "I don't like adulterers because I'm Christian so I won't marry those" or "I won't marry them because one is transgendered" is fine. This is a puzzling decision both legally and morally.

Max Mosley

Thanks to Meg barker who through the Critsex list brought a big piece in the Guardian to my attention. It focuses upon the ongoing Max Mosley case which appears to be providing vast entertainment for our media. This certainly seems the mos balanced account and is a welcome shift from the usual sniggering and finger wagging accounts to be found in most of the UK media. The story is of particular interest from the point of view of freedom of expression verses privacy rights although most commentators do now seem to agree that Mosley looks posed to win the case. If hat does indeed happen, it may usher in a new approach to sexual morality in public life which may be for the better.

Something More

The latest issue of The Pink Paper carries a little snippet that I found interesting. Mark Bowness (pictured right), a 29yr old from Liverpool has launched a site called aftersomethingmore. You can view the site here. On the 25 June next year, his birthday he will have a Civil partnership - but he doesn't know who with. The site will chronicle his attempts to find the ideal man and life partner. He is a young, attractive, successful man with clear ambitions, originality and a social conscience. If on the other hand, he was an overweight, argumentative academic (ahem) it might be a bit more of a challenge. Nonetheless, I suspect his webpages will become regular reading for me.

His action comes out of a belief that it can be very hard to find "something more" amongst gay men. It does seem to be shibboleth of the LGB community and I can certainly see some truth in it.

Society of Sexual Health Advisors

I've just confirmed Ill be speaking at the Society of Sexual Health Advisers Annual Conference on Sunday 28 September in Newcastle. I'll be speaking on 'Public Sex and the Law in the Internet Age'. I'm really looking forward to the event and hope to learn as much as I'll be sharing. I'm always happy to speak about my research (see right about pane for details) to any activist/health/social groups free of charge (within reason) provided my expenses are covered. Feel free to drop me a line at chris.ashford@Sunderland.ac.uk if you want to bounce some ideas around.

Sex Therapy, Antimonogomy and errrrr Aliens?

In a welcome distraction from the economic doom and gloom that domiantes the media this weekend, I've found myself absorbed in a story carried by the Sunday Times Style Magazine. The piece focusses on a "new" sex therapy that revolves around what are termed "sharing groups". These sharing groups do vary in form but it seems, according to The Sunday Times that some promote antimonogomy. The story seemed fairly straight forward and interesting - monogamy is constructed as one of those "ludicrous, unnatural social conventions that stand between you and spiritual enlightenment". The solution seems to be get naked and explore yourself sexually with whoever you want. All this apparently features on a new DVD. There are some rather terrific quotes - perhaps notably "you make my vagina tingle" and the piece seems to really dismiss the group in the final paragraph (after a generally positive piece) as horny hippy loons. The paper also directs the readers to trueryan.com to read more about "sharing groups". So off I went, and a bit of Googling later (isn't it scary how much we leave on the web?) you could be forgiven for having a totally different view of he groups from reading the web. Far from a radical antimonogmy movement, there is no mention of nudity, let alone sex on the various sharing forums. All in all, it seems a rather interesting group that I want to know more about but after an hour of surfing the web I feel I now know less than when I started. As well as the Ryan site there is a sharing group site here. That site contains details of a future "sharing retreat" bu again the whole sex/naked thing is really not there and you have to construe the word 'honesty' pretty widely to think that's a hint that you'll be nude. Anyway, details of that retreat can be found here.

The below text is a commentary on a May 2008 retreat in Spain. After the Sunday Times piece, many of the sentences take on a new meaning:

'We gathered 3 times a day and every single time it felt fresh. Each of us
sincerely exploring our edges, feeling into each other, offering feedback and
holding the space for whatever wanted to arise. There was nothing to do yet
everything was taken care of, without anybody leading. From the first moment
everyone's contribution to the flow of the group created a powerful collective,
balancing itself. When we bubbled up, one of us would remind us to drop. When we
drifted into a story, one of us would remind us to be still. When we got really
serious, one of us would lighten us up. When we were guessing, one of us would
see clearly. Since we have been back we have realized how powerful this group
was for us. This profound and nourishing experience of living together as a
group is a great encouragement for us to keep expanding and connecting. '

If on the other hand you did more around 'The Workshop' DVD referred to you realise that the piece is really based on that film, shown earlier this year as part of the 2008 Tribeca Film Festival. It's that film that provides the picture on the right. Thanks to the joys of the Internet we can find out a bit more about this "guru" Ryan Spielman who The Sunday Times link to and who promotes these "sharing groups". He appears to feature in a few YouTube videos. Here we apparently see him (I could be wrong) putting his yoga abilities to good use:




OK, maybe I've been a little mean - here is the trailer for the film on YouTube. It looks rather good.



Errr....hang on...did they say aliens? - that wasn't in the Sunday Times piece - I can't think why. So what do these grous stand for and can attendees at the 2009 Malaga retreat expect much talk of aliens - it's a shame The Sunday Times didn't dig a little deeper!

Monday, 7 July 2008

New Resource: Gay East Midlands

Pink News reports today on the further development of a new resource- Gay East Midlands. This was a newsletter that was published between 1983 and 1984. The first three issues are now available online, offering a fascinating insight into historical constructions of sexuality. Later issues are apparently going to be made available in the next few weeks so it's well worth checking back. Take a look at the site here. I was really struck by the story in the first issue talking about the "Police Bill" and a real fear amongst the gay community that increased police powers would lead to greater oppression particularly in cottages. Given the story I posted earlier today about public sex activities in Bristol and a range of other stories (just use the search box in the top left of the blog) I am left wondering how much change there has been on some issues. A fantastic resource.

Bye Bye Blasphemy

One story that broke during my blogging hiatus last month was the Bye Bye Blasphemy party held in London, celebrating the repeal of the blasphemy laws in the Criminal Justice and Immigration Act. As I've previously blogged, that legislation also introduced the ill thought out violent pornography legislation. The Pink Paper reports that at this celebration Ian McKellen read out the poem 'The Love That Dares to Speak Its Name' by James Kirkup. The poem was at the heart of a blasphemy prosecution of Gay News in the 1970's after it published the poem. That case went to the European Court of Human Rights and makes it interesting reading. Take a look at Gay News Ltd. and Lemon v United Kingdom (1983) 5 E.H.R.R. 123 and R v Lemon, R v Gay News Ltd. [1978] 3 W.L.R. 404. Both are available on Westlaw. There are some linked journal articles there too.

The poet James Kirup was from South Shields and a collection of his work and artefact's are stored in the North East at the James Kirup Collection.


The Love That Dares To Speak Its Name

By James Kirkup

As they took him from the cross
I, the centurion, took him in my arms-
the tough lean body
of a man no longer young,
beardless, breathless,
but well hung.

He was still warm.
While they prepared the tomb
I kept guard over him.
His mother and the Magdalen
had gone to fetch clean linen
to shroud his nakedness.

I was alone with him.
For the last time
I kissed his mouth. My tongue
found his, bitter with death.
I licked his wound-
the blood was harsh
For the last time
I laid my lips around the tip
of that great cock, the instrument
of our salvation, our eternal joy.
The shaft, still throbbed, anointed
with death's final ejaculation .

I knew he'd had it off with other men-
with Herod's guards, with Pontius Pilate,
With John the Baptist, with Paul of Tarsus
with foxy Judas, a great kisser, with
the rest of the Twelve, together and apart.
He loved all men, body, soul and spirit. - even me.

So now I took off my uniform, and, naked,
lay together with him in his desolation,
caressing every shadow of his cooling flesh,
hugging him and trying to warm him back to life.
Slowly the fire in his thighs went out,
while I grew hotter with unearthly love.

It was the only way I knew to speak our love's proud name,
to tell him of my long devotion, my desire, my dread-
something we had never talked about. My spear, wet with blood,
his dear, broken body all open wounds,
and in each wound his side, his back,
his mouth - I came and came and came .

as if each coming was my last.
And then the miracle possessed us.
I felt him enter into me, and fiercely spend
his spirit's finbal seed within my hole, my soul,
pulse upon pulse, unto the ends of the earth-
he crucified me with him into kingdom come.

-This is the passionate and blissful crucifixion
same-sex lovers suffer, patiently and gladly.
They inflict these loving injuries of joy and grace
one upon the other, till they dies of lust and pain
within the horny paradise of one another's limbs,
with one voice cry to heaven in a last divine release.

Then lie long together, peacefully entwined, with hope
of resurrection, as we did, on that green hill far away.
But before we rose again, they came and took him from me.
They knew no what we had done, but felt
no shame or anger. Rather they were gald for us,
and blessed us, as would he, who loved all men.

And after three long, lonely days, like years,
in which I roamed the gardens of my grief
seeking for him, my one friend who had gone from me,
he rose from sleep, at dawn, and showed himself to me before
all others. And took me to him with
the love that now forever dares to speak its name.

Public Sex and Bristol Downs

Thanks to Mark for flagging up this really interesting story on the BBC website. According to the BBC, plans to clear scrub on Bristol Downs has run into a little complication in the form of men having sex there. The City Council's LGB group has apparently raised concerns that the action of clearing the scrub may be discriminating against gay and bisexual men. The council seems to be taking a sensitive approach, drafting in THT to advise but they are still pushing ahead. The remarkable aspect of the story is an LGB group actually stepping up to defend men who engage in public sex -an exceptionally rare act, and as someone whose research is primarily into public sex and the law, I consider it a welcome move. The group isn't named in the story but well done to them. A move that I'm sure won them few friends.

Facebook & the Civil Partnership

The Guardian is carrying a story today about Facebook and the lack of a Civil Partnership relationship category. I have to confess I am in that tiny section of society that has so far resisted Facebook but many people have joined the Facebook monster and are now, according to the Guardian, on the rampage as there is no option for 'Civil Partnership', despite marriage existing as an option and even 'open relationship. Even Government minister Ben Bradshaw has waded in, joining a campaign to change Facebook. Given that Civil Partnership and Marriage hold ever evolving definitions globally you do wonder whether Facebook will need an explanation as to what it means in each jurisdiction - OK I'm just stirring now...

Where Do Old Elephant's Go?

There is a lot of mythology surrounding old elephant's who seem to vanish to an unknown place as they come to the end of their lives. This place is called the Elephant's Graveyard. As I watched US series Brothers & Sisters this week (yes my fondness for US soaps is once again influencing this blog - apologies) there was a moving scene when Saul (the uncle) finally comes out. I've embedded the clip below. It's a terribly moving scene in which Saul asks his gay nephew "tell me how I can be a gay man at my age?". As I look at gay culture whether it be magazines, bars and clubs or even the virtual community I'm prompted to ask "where do the old gay men and women go?'. Like the elephant's of mythology they vanish from our culture. The multi-generation inhabitants of gay commercial space in bars and clubs that was still present when I came out ten years ago seems much less present. Queer culture is more youth and image conscious than ever. The beautiful people syndrome that Whittle has written about is ever dominant. What then for Saul and older gay men? He can not, as he desires, have his time back and the years that stretch before him are full of uncertainty. After a a weekend of massive Pride events in London the gay community must collectively ponder, where do our old elephant's go?

Saturday, 5 July 2008

Daughter for Beatie

The Guardian reports today on the truly remarkable story of Thomas Beatie who has now given birth to a baby girl. The Guardian draws attention to previous media headlines, notably that of the Daily Star: "Bloke: I'm having a baby!". The Guardian ends with: 'expect to see father and baby pictures spread across a glossy magazine on your newsstand some time soon.' Whilst I'm torn on the issue of whether that is a good or bad thing for the child I think that in these initial weeks and months it probably is for it will help create a climate of 'normalcy' longer term which the child will benefit from. If on the other hand the media becomes an ever present force, at birthdays and so, then I think that will be a bad thing. Ultimately, it's up to Beatie and his wife. There are some interesting comments attached to The Advocate announcement on this story. I have little doubt that Beatie and the photograph on the right of this post will become one of the defining images of changes attitude to gender and sexuality and a defining image of the twenty first century.

To Be a Lesbian - Gender Performativity and Lesbianism in 2008

There's a really interesting feature in the latest Diva magazine. The piece explores modern day lesbian identity with the strap-line: 'Why we prefer heels and pumps to hob-nail boots'. The piece, drawing on interviews with numerous glamorous high profile lesbians argues that the last ten years have seen a shift in identity with an increased feminisation of lesbian identity. It states at one point: 'In 2008, the default look for most lesbians is noticeably more feminine than at any other time in our history'. This seems particularly interesting when there is a lot of anecdotal evidence that there are more camp men - so this appears to be more complicated than simply putting gender perfomativity down to legal reform.

This fascinating story contrasts with the cover of Diva. The August issue features a photo shoot with The L Word's Daniela Sea and includes one pic on the cover. I've used it as the image to the right - what do you think? More feminine, whatever feminine is?

Same Sex Marriage in Australia

I was down in Australia last December when Kevin Rudd was swept into power. As news channels showed his election on big screens in downtown Melbourne (never before have I felt quite so much like a Big Brother extra looking up at a big screen of 'the leader') a lot of ordinary Australians and fellow academics expressed the view to me that things would now be different, particularly in relation to gay equality. Things never work out that simply though and this week Australian Olympic swimmer Matthew Mitcham has become the latest to take a swipe at Rudd. In an interview with SX News the swimmer who came out last month said: -“I’m not happy with Kevin Rudd,” he says, bluntly. “Kevin Rudd’s opinion of marriage as something that’s only between a man and a woman is quite narrow-minded. During the election campaign he was all about appearing young and cool, but his views on gay marriage make him look quite old-fashioned.”

As an academic I found another paragraph far more interesting when the 20 year old athlete said: “And you know what? Straight people talk about their sexuality all the time. They talk about the opposite sex, they talk about their wives, their husbands, their marriage. Those are all heterosexual discourses, and they do talk about them all the time. So those ladies didn’t think their comments through very well.”

I'm trying to think when I last heard a British sportsman talk about 'discourses'.


A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to Wisconsin

Well not literally but it might do to some folks who might take it upon themselves to travel over to California to get married. According to 365Gay.com, a little known Wisconsin law makes it a criminal offense to enter into a marriage outside the state if that marriage were illegal in Wisconsin.

The law hasn't been enforced and I'd be surprised if it was but you just never know! The penalty is a fine of up to $10,000, nine months in prison, or both.

Homophobic Bullying


PinkNews is reporting that the General Secretary of the Trades Union Congress (TUC) has argued children should be taught about gay equality in a bid to curb homophobic bullying in schools. According to the story, he said: "While the UK's education system ought to be in the vanguard of the fight against homophobic discrimination, all too often it is in fact part of the problem.

"Whereas our schools and colleges have done much to counter racism and sexism, the same cannot be said when it comes to tackling homophobia. Despite some notable exceptions, too many educational establishments are breeding grounds for the worst kind of casual prejudice."

The TUC also point to the Stonewall report - The School Report published last year which found that over two-thirds of young LGBT pupils have experienced homophobic bullying.


I've posted my first poll on the right hand side for readers to register your opinion. As ever, feel free to also add a comment on this post.

Erotic Awards

The Erotic Awards shortlist has been announced for 2008 featuring a number of academics including one fellow Sunderland academic, Dr Clarissa Smith who has been shortlisted for the campaigner award. Huge well done to her! All the finalists can be viewed here.

Pride Season & Pacha NYC

We really are in the middle of Pride season with New York Pride taking place last week, London Pride taking place today and Northern Pride - the Newcastle event taking place last week. It hadn't occurred to me before, but the Newcastle event does sound like a make of bread. Anyway, I'm sure it will be a terrific event. According to Skrufff-E #369 circulated this week, the night before NYC Pride, Pacha was raided by party police thus apparently buggering up it's Pride plans. The story states: 'New York party police raided Pacha last Friday (June 27) a day before the Chelsea superclub was due to present two nights of Gay Pride parties featuring Victor Calderone and a massive Saint at Large event on the Sunday. Edge New York columnist (and regular Skrufff contributor) Matt Kalkhoff said gay venue Splash was also ‘over-run by police’ on Friday, after Pacha was shuttered earlier in the evening..'

You can get a little feel for NYC Pride in the RYANISLAND Films video below. The show is presented by Ryan Wolowski who is bouncier than a rubber ball and appears to have more energy than a fusion reactor. It doesn't half look a wet NYC!

Here, Queer and Conservative

I'm suffering blog withdrawal so I'm back with the occasional blogging post over the Summer. Thanks to all of those of you from all over the world who keep coming back. Thanks to my blog stats counter it seems most of you are after cottaging and pegging stories or details about Mr Gay Newcastle. I fear this story will do little for you so you may want to click away now. A story that really caught my attention today is on Pink News. The story focuses on the launch of LGBTory today during Pride London. Many moons ago when I was an active Conservative I was a member of a group called the Tory Campaign for Homosexual Equality (TORCHE). That group had been knocking about London for the 80s and 90s and regularly met in stylish London bars. At 17/18 I never attended an event as I couldn't pop down to London for a 6pm meeting on a Friday for rather obvious financial reasons. Nonetheless the group worked quietly to change attitudes within and beyond the party. When, speaking to to my local Lancashire paper in 1998 as a branch officer, I stated (in my 18yr old naivety) that the Conservative Party should have more people in it's ranks who are openly gay and the Party should support the repeal of Section 28 and consider gay marriage (I wasn't out at the time). It made the front page that week and the following week the Party came out with the statement "we liked the sentiment but we would have expressed it differently". The person who said that can now be found on Gaydar. Obviously I had resigned within 24 hours and that was more or less the last gasp of my life in politics. How times change. Those TORCHE people are now advising David Cameron and Boris in London. Many of them hold senior positions and are likely to be in future Tory cabinets. BTW all the TORCHE papers are now in the Hall-Carpenter archive in London.

The re-emergence of a new group, LGBTory, this time supported by a party leader is massively significant if we believe that the Tories will make up the next UK government. These voices have the potential to be shaping and influencing opinion in the next ten to twenty years and with it, the law. We should watch and listen to their words very carefully if we want to know how the law on LGBT rights will evolve. Make a start by checking out their blog here.
 
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